We all want to be in control!

We need to be in control

You don’t want to ever feel helpless, powerless, lacking control of situations around you. It is so humiliating having to watch situations getting out of control when there is nothing you can do to avert or control the situation……… 

“You’ll tell yourself anything you have to, to pretend that you’re still the one in control.”
― Jodi Picoult,

Ever looked at your son and promised him heaven when you think that the earth is too good for you! Craving for things beyond your reach just to feel in control! It hurts to feel powerless! We therefore let go of what we have control over and that’s how we totally loose control of the world around us.

“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” – Steve Maraboli

If we control what we have effectively, we can control what we don’t have when we get it. Control is the heartbeat of power. You have no power at all if you lack control.

“The reason many people in our society are miserable, sick, and highly stressed is because of an unhealthy attachment to things they have no control over.” – Steve Maraboli

Feel good about what you have power over. You have to be powerful in your own world before you can be powerful in our world. Nevertheless, there are things that you can’t control. That’s just the way it is. You should learn to let go when you can, before it is too late to move on.